REAL LOVE TALK!
For most of us…meaning people in society. Our happiness comes with a sacrifice. Love in general seems like an intangible thing ….unless we are willing to change a little and accept the fact that no one is perfect. We go through life jumping from this relationship to that one, in order to find some kind of comfort. Or is it that we end up staying in the wrong relationship in order to not be …..alone. We constantly point the fingers at our mate….trying our best to make them aware of their flaws, until finally we realize that…that finger was pointing in the mirror and we are inevitably…pointing at….OURSELF. I have learned that, we often attract what we are. We say that we want certain things, but do we really want those things. Do we really want the marriage, with the house, and kids…..forever…and ever, ever, ever ever? Is love something that we desire or do we desire lust even more. An so ….we come to the point where we are in a relationship with someone and after years with that person…we look over and see a person that no longer calls you beautiful, or tells you that you smell good. Instead those sweet nothings were lost somewhere in between picking the kids up from practice and finding pepto-bismo for their heartburn. Well who is going to stop your heart…from the burning desire and need to be acknowledged, kissed passionately, held, and loved? It all boils down to my original statement of you receive what you give off. So before you head off to bed tonite….back to back…again….turn over, rip your clothes off….yep..just let it all hang out and know that you are sexy….and take back the passion that you and your mate once traded in for broken hearts, sexless nights, and leaving the house without even kissing each other good-bye! The real sacrifice is being away from your mate and longing to be back around him after all these years because he still CALLS YOU BEAUTIFUL AND TELL YOU THAT YOU SMELL GOOD!
~ by sgame00 on November 8, 2009.
Posted in Love
Tags: Love, sex, Relationships, companions, poems, happiness, cheating, kissing, desire, heart, heartburn, clothes, listen
Your comments are of course true,we have all at some time been guilty of letting the passion eb away from our love lives,Me and my friends have often talked about the viscious cirlcle of finding that special someone that ticks all the boxes but stands the test of time in bed,I have deduced it seems the girls that are hard work volatile and completely mess your head up are the ones we keep going for,the ones that we want in the sack.Friends of mine which happen to be female have watched me like a lab rat,or thats how it feels, and their conlusion is I dont want commitment I want the unabtainable and thats why my taste in women doesn’t vary much.We must have that lust in our lives wherever we find it.A goood friend of mine said to me the human being isn’t meant to be on its own,if left alone we wither and die like neglected roses, with a soul mate we flourish and grow to meet our full potential.I think she’s right
I love the way you put things into perspective…..and you also made it funny and real…can’t wait for your next blog!
Hey Sis, I agree with Tiffany you know how to put things in perspective! There is a quote “True love never dies for it is lust that fades away. Love bonds for a lifetime but lust just pushes away.” Keep the blogs coming!!!